Parents serving alcohol at kids parties
I read this article in a newspaper, and was shocked (and shocked is a mild word for what I felt). Read a few excerpts, and then we can discuss further:
Dr Harish Shetty, however, doesn’t buy the logic. “Drinking with dad is just as bad as it can sow the seeds of alcoholism in adult life.” He feels that there are some parts of the big bad world that parents should not get inside the homes. It’s not just at house parties that alcohol is ‘on the house. ‘A Congress MLA’s son from an elite school in the western suburbs celebrated his birthday party at Taj Land’s End, where booze flowed freely until the wee hours of the morning.
For several city children, “beer and breezers aren’t really alcohol.”Kids have often sneaked miniature bottles of vodka into the classroom and downed liquor in the loo. Some have even been caught for it, after falling asleep at school. Students at one south Mumbai school have openly gulped down vodka in Bisleri bottles during the school socials.
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Couple abandon baby girl, want their boy
In a shocking incident that portrays how parents have a quest for male children, a couple abandoned their girl child under the pretext of claiming that their child had been switched with another baby, and that their actual child was a boy. They even demanded a DNA test, and when the DNA test proved that the lady was the mother of the girl child, they refused to accept the DNA test. In the end, the police arrested them for deserting the girl child:
MUMBAI: A couple from Dharavi’s Rajiv Gandhi Nagar slum was arrested on Friday for abandoning an infant girl at the civic-run Sion Hospital. The parents, Rajmani and Sheela Jaiswal, had earlier alleged that their baby boy had been swapped for a girl child after delivery in December. They left the child behind when Sheela was discharged from the hospital on Wednesday.
They had approached the Shahunagar police station and had demanded a DNA test to confirm parentage. The DNA report, submitted by the Forensic Science Laboratory in Kalina, had confirmed that the DNA of the mother and child matched. The unlettered couple, however, remains unconvinced. ”We don’t trust the DNA report given by the police or hospital. We want the DNA test to be conducted in Delhi,” said Salam Kazi from voluntary organisation Al-Hind, which is supporting the family and promises to provide them a lawyer if need be.
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The horrific murder case in Goa and the police
Suddenly, there are a number of questions about the conduct of the mother in the case of the British teenager Scarlett Keeling in Goa, a horrible case where the daughter was murdered on a beach in Goa. There is some backlash emerging against the mother in terms of questioning as to why the girl was left alone, that the girl was doing drugs, that she should have been in school, etc. These are all valid questions, and are relevant to a case where child services would investigate as to whether the children are being brought up in a home where they are getting the proper care, education, etc.
However, the worrying facts of this case is the conduct of the local Goa police.
After Scarlett was found dead on the Anjuna beach, her family had contended that she was raped and murdered. Initially reluctant to treat it as a murder case, Goa Police carried out a detailed probe after a second autopsy was conducted by a team of doctors here following a demand by the girl’s mother Fiona MacKeown. “We are happy that police have conducted investigations properly but we want that police’s act of misguiding Fiona Mackowen (Scarlett’s mother) should also be probed,” Vikram Varma, lawyer for Scarlett’s family, said.
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